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The No Resolution Solution
Have you ever wondered why New Year’s resolutions are forgotten by 80% of the people who make them?
I have. I’m one of the 80%.
What I’ve concluded is that people feel pressured into making resolutions to make themselves feel better or to find more balance in their lives. Yet, in reality, for example, a desired promotion could result in more hours to their 80+ work week. Or, if you make a resolution to eat better in the new year, you may be too busy to shop or to cook.
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To put it bluntly, people don’t make resolutions that fit with their underlying values or desires at that time in their life!
Serendipitously, I found a solution for myself.
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A few years ago, a friend invited me to make a “vision board” with her and a few of her friends. As I gathered images and words that attracted me (which made me feel balanced and happy) I arranged them on a board.
As a result, I was completely drawn into the process that the power of vision enables, which is to allow the person to access their unconscious to uncover their deepest desires and dreams.
Once I made the “vision board.” I placed it where I could see it every day so I could “see” what I desired.
A few months into the year, I realized many of my own dreams. Ironically, before the end of the year I accomplished all my goals!
Now, I am completely sold on the process of vision, so much so that I have now added a Vision Board Workshop – “Visioning Your Deepest Dreams” to my Creative Workshop offerings.
Allow yourself the opportunity to envision your dreams in 2014 and picture yourself in a place of happiness and peace.
Please join me on January 30th for “Visioning Your Deepest Dreams – A Vision Board Workshop Beyond visioning this workshop will teach you how to manifest your dreams.
Fun and Relaxing!.
Time: 6:30 -9:30
Location: 104-110 Maple Avenue, Red Bank
Fee: $75 (+$10 materials charge and a light dinner will be served)
*To reserve your spot, please call (732) 732-530-2951
About Madeline Muise, LCSW, Director Mediation and Therapy Associates, LLC:
Mediation and Therapy Associates specializes in helping you create a fulfilling life. We help you identify goals and develop skills to establish rewarding relationships with partners/spouses, your children, extended family and community.
Personally, I received my Bachelor’s degree from the College of St. Rose and a Master’s in Social Work from Rutgers’ the State University. In addition, I also have postgraduate training in the following areas:
- Family Systems Therapy
- Divorce Mediation, Winston Salem, North Carolina
- Advanced Mediation Training, Montclair, New Jersey and Florida
- Parent Coordination Training with Robin Deutch, PhD.
- Collaborative Law Training
I am married, have adult children and grandchildren. My hobbies include travel, sailing and the arts.
For more information, please go to my website at: http://www.mediationandtherapyassociates.com