Painting The Bridge of R-FH Milestones
Memories of the McCarter Estate bridge
As if it wasn't enough that we were gawky, cold, scared, covered in paint, sniveling and lost running through back yards from the police ... We were convinced that Libby was dead.
There we were: a dozen crying teens on dress rehearsal night of Fiddler on the Roof at Rumson-Fair Haven Regional High School scampering through dark, unfamiliar yards, bumping into trees and one another, like Keystone cops, and calling out for lost Libby.
"Oh, no!," someone whispered about as quietly as a Tom cat in a tussle. "There was a pool back there somewhere. Crap! I bet she ran on top of the pool cover and fell in! What are we gonna do??? Oh, God, Libby's dead!"
Now we were lost, on the wrong side of the law, sticky and crying.
But, we were proud. We had done it — what anyone worth any R-FH school spirit salt must do. We painted the bridge!
It wasn't just any bridge. It was "The Bridge." At the time, no one knew much about why it was there on Ridge Road other than that it used to be part of the McCarter Estate.
The estate spanned a lot of property from Fair Haven to and through Rumson. The bridge, apparently, was used to take people from the gates on Fair Haven Road to the main house across Ridge in Rumson.
We didn't care much about that, though. To us, it was a modest cement structure that we thought we collectively owned and had every right to use as a banner or artsy milestone message board.
Sometimes the "artful" messages would spill onto the road underneath the bridge as well.
Everyone knew that painting the bridge was basically criminal mischief and chargeable, but they, including police, also knew that it was a rite of passage. I'd love to have been a fly on a donut at the station when bridge painting hoodlum action was called in. Yes, cops really used to eat donuts back in the day.
We probably provided a lot of entertainment for those guys working midnights.
We couldn't help it though. It was our obligation. Tradition! You just couldn't graduate from R-FH without having painted the bridge at least one time, preferably several times.
The hoopla before and after the deed was actually a lot more fun than during, though. Bridge painting was nerve-wracking, painful and messy. Getting caught was another matter that involved painful bartering and begging and, sometimes, fines to not ruin college transcript records.
The whole experience, though, was a twisted act of love. If you happened to be the subject of the painting, it was a high honor. First of all, you knew that your friends risked rep and limb to venture out into a wooded trail in the wee hours of the morning (usually) lugging paint and scary prophecies of what may ensue.
Then they had to hang upside down and get every letter right, ready to run with the sound of every car and managing not to fall onto the road below to keep company with the roadkill. Ah, but what fun!
And everyone had their moment in paint on the bridge. I was lucky enough to have friends just nuts enough to give me an ode de bridge twice. While I was looking for Libby and crying like a bad little nerd, someone managed to paint my name on the bridge and road commemorating my role as Golde in Fiddler — "The Mama."
Then, when we graduated, my miscreant childhood friends forever painted "Kiss Today Goodbye" (the Senior Variety Show finale song I sang) on the bridge and took me for a ride to surprise me with it. Nothing says love like a bridge paint job. Nothing like those friends to this day, either.
Oh, and we found Libby unscathed, went to Dunkin' Donuts to celebrate her resurrection from the phantom pool, made it to opening night of the show and performed like accomplished ... bridge painters. YUMP! da dee da da, YUMP! da dee da da ... Tradition!
I just can't seem to remember who was driving the getaway car that night ... Libby?
Yeah, "The Bridge" gave all R-FHers a memorable moment or 10.
What's your bridge memory? Have any pics? Tell us all about it and show us your photos of bridge time gone by.
Daryl cooper ley
12:20 pm on Friday, March 15, 2013
One of my happiest memories was painting that bridge! I graduated from RFH many years back and remember it being our tradition! I think every senior class at RFH had painted that darn thing! Wasn't too happy when I drove a U haul truck underneath and it didn't quite make it.. Tore the top of the truck right off!
Thanks for the great article! Makes me feel young again!
Sal Maita
12:20 pm on Friday, March 15, 2013
You were running through what is now my backyard ... I am sure the beer bottles we dig up did NOT belong to drama kids :).
Elaine Van Develde
12:24 pm on Friday, March 15, 2013
Ha! Sorry, Sal! See, if you were there at the time, you could have found Libby! FYI, drama kids didn't really drink beer in those days ... uh, I mean soda. That's right, soda. There were certainly no beer drinkers at R-FH. Those kegs at the parties were filled with, uh, soda ... ;)
Mac
2:30 pm on Friday, March 15, 2013
Ah, 2:34 a.m. A Rumson patrol car must be reporting to HQs that both sides of the McCarter Bridge had been freshly painted again with slogans supporting the RFHRHS weekly football game. Or perhaps HQs was being notified that about a dozen teenagers were interrupted while painting the bridge and were now running haphazardly in various directions. Or, maybe on one spirited late night it was being reported that the bridge had been wallpapered in purple and white football slogans. We were the unofficial official midnight school cheerleaders and proud of it. For our bridge painting finale, we built a papier-mâché replica of our bridge, painted it white with purple lettering, loaded it onto a boat trailer with a couple of us holding it in place underneath, drove it to the RBC football field just off of Shrewsbury Ave., convinced the staff setting up for the game that the bridge was for the Thanksgiving halftime events, drove the bridge onto the field after they opened the gates for us and set it down on the RBC side of the field. Then we drove off in the white convertible we had painted with purple water paint for each game that entire season. While our papier-mâché bridge met with a sad demise at the end of the second half, we comforted ourselves at the end of the game with both the game victory and the Shore Conference title for the second year in a row. I still miss driving under that bridge during football seasons. Sal, any Horlacher cans?
Sal Maita
7:45 pm on Monday, March 18, 2013
Sorry Mac, The labels are all gone from the bottles and lettering worn off the cans ... from shape probably some Piels and/or Bud bullets. We turn up more every year. Now that we have FB, I will post pix.
APO 301
12:13 pm on Sunday, March 17, 2013
I know this was all fun and games, but to the cars that drove through the wet paint in the road, and it got all over the lower part of the car, wasn't too funny. Unknown to the drivers, the paint went unoticed,(probably latex water base) dried and was impossible to remove by washing or any other means than a trip to a body shop to have paint job repaired. I know a Porsche had to have a complete paint job because the paint (even latex) couldn't be removed. Like I said, it was all fun and games to our youth, but not to the people who suffered damage to their cars. I also know that some of the stuff painted on the "bridge", was really funny.
Patrick Thomas
11:16 pm on Monday, March 18, 2013
Thank you APO 301 for the smoking gun - it was always well known too many high end cars were scarred by the hi-jinx hence the unfortunate destruction. However it is tragic such a historic landmark disappeared without due discourse. Best regards, Patrick Thomas - Rumson
APO 301
12:17 pm on Sunday, March 17, 2013
I forgot to add, I know. I'm just a cranky old person with no sense of humor and don't want kids to have a good time. Just remember, at one time I was also a kid and had my good times too. Just look at the other side of the coin now that "kids time" is over and things start to cost you money.
Barbara R. Anderson
3:57 pm on Sunday, March 17, 2013
Elaine, now the cat is out of the bag! I am going to be grounded... What a night! I do remember disappearing as we were scampering away in various directions, but I don't recall who was driving the get-a-way car. Probably not me - i would have been too nervous! Such awesome memories... Libby
Elaine Van Develde
4:00 pm on Sunday, March 17, 2013
OMG! LIBBY!! We really thought you fell in that pool and met some untimely demise! How are you?? What a night it was, right? We were all crying and calling for you ... trying to figure out who would dive into that pool and find you. Hmmmm ... the getaway car ... as I recall, that's where we found you. That's another week's worth of grounding, young lady! ;)
David McCarthy
3:48 pm on Monday, March 18, 2013
Who would think that there would be a graffiti filled bridge in Rumson..but that is what made it special. The messages were short and honest and sometimes funny...it was twitter before twitter. It was a great place for true teenage expression. Driving under the bridge you were always anticipating the new message that someone painted. Parents even looked forward to seeing the new funny quote sunday morning. I still miss it when I drive down the road.
APO 301
1:16 pm on Tuesday, March 19, 2013
Patrick Thomas It wasn't the complaint about cars damaged by paint. The truth is, a small school bus with handicapped kids took the top off of the bus, and several children were slightly injured. Rumson, Fair Haven and the County had a meeting about the clearence and the arch of the bridge. School busses, garbage trucks and fire trucks all had to straddle the center line to clear the bridge, thus it was deemed to be a public safety issue and sadly, the bridge had to come down. I too hated to see a piece of local history become just a memory, but public safety came first, was just a matter of time for a serious head on happened. There is a claus in the agreement about truck restrictions also. My growing up memories were a big part of that bridge, and all the McCarter properties that went from Willow St. to Rumson Rd and from Fair Haven Rd. to Kemp Ave. to Rumson Rd. Lots of places to have a good time growing up around here. Never painted the bridge though.