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Brick Township Priest Arrested, Charged With Sex Offenses

Priest at Church of the Visitation was arrested over the weekend for alleged incident Friday

 

A Brick Township priest has been charged with criminal sexual contact against a mother and her minor child, authorities announced Monday afternoon.

Fr. Marukudiyil C. Velan, 64, known to parishioners at Church of the Visitation as "Father Chris," was arrested Saturday by detectives from the Ocean County Prosecutor's Office and Brick Township Police Department.

Earlier that day, township and county detectives interviewed a mother and her children – parishioners at the church – in connection with a report they had filed against Velan after he visited their home in Brick the day before, said Prosecutor Marlene Lynch Ford. During that visit, Ford said, it is alleged that Velan had "inappropriate contact" with the adult mother as well as her minor child.

Detectives conducted an investigation that concluded Velan befriended the family before his visit to their home. Ford said the investigation established probable cause to make the arrest.

The Diocese of Trenton, in a statement released Monday night, said Velan's full name is Velanmarukudiyil J. Christudas. He is a member of the Camaldolese Congregation of the Order of St. Benedict, and a native of India. Visitation Parish has been his only assignment in the Diocese, spokeswoman Rayanne Bennett said.

"Bishop David M. O’Connell, C.M. has withdrawn Father Christudas’ faculties to minister in the Diocese of Trenton while the charges against him are being fully investigated and addressed by law enforcement authorities," Bennett said in a statement. "The Bishop has pledged the diocese’s full cooperation with this process."

Velan was charged with a single count of criminal sexual contact as to the adult victim, and one count of criminal sexual contact and one count of endangering the welfare of a child as to the minor victim, Ford said.

His bail was set at $75,000 cash by Superior Court Judge Francis Hodgson. Jail records showed he was being held in the Ocean County Jail Monday.

According to Ford, Velan had been assigned to the church on Mantoloking Road since 2001 as a visiting priest.

The investigation is ongoing, Ford said. Anyone with information regarding the investigation is being asked to contact Detective Anthony Paciulli of the Ocean County Prosecutor’s Office at 732-929-2027, or Capt. John Rein of the Brick Township Police Department at 732-262-2135.

Related Topics: Marukudiyil C. Velan, Visitation Roman Catholic Church, and brick nj news

So Much to Say

4:55 pm on Monday, July 16, 2012

Hey Patch, post his picture. Let the world see what this pervert looks like.

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Daniel Nee

5:39 pm on Monday, July 16, 2012

A mug shot was not provided with the announcement of his arrest. If one is released (or a general photo that we're allowed to use) we'll post it.

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CRK

10:07 am on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

I do not know this Priest but the story sounds alittle like a set up. Hope all the facts come out soon.. If he did molest these people, hang him, If not an innocent person may be wrongly accused. We should wait for the whole story. Most pedafiles strike more than once...there should be a history of this behavior. Innocent until proven guilty.

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ace marxman

5:00 pm on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

before i moved i used to go to that church and father chris was a harmless man, its prob somone wanting money and publicity, know the facts before you nail somone to the cross.

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ship of fools

8:22 pm on Wednesday, July 18, 2012

maybe your a pervert - lets see your picture-

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diana verderame kieffer

6:37 pm on Friday, August 3, 2012

how do you know he is guilty--I thought the american way was innocent until proven guilty

Arlen

4:56 pm on Monday, July 16, 2012

Wow! Not another catholic priest! So very sad

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Typical Obama Voter

10:58 pm on Monday, July 16, 2012

Can you belive it? Usually the sexual abusers are public school teachers, and females to boot.

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Stewart Pidity

5:29 pm on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

"Forgive me Father Fondles, it has been 1 month since my last confession". When police arrested him he was in possession of something long and hard. His first name.

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ship of fools

8:24 pm on Wednesday, July 18, 2012

sounds like someone cashing in to me

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diana verderame kieffer

6:39 pm on Friday, August 3, 2012

dont beleive all you hear and read

cando21

5:07 pm on Monday, July 16, 2012

Hey let's remember everyone is innocent until poven gulty
What is a innocent gesture can be misunderstood by someone, and if there is the thought of a law suit against the RICH Church maybe that could be at the root of it all
I hope Not I hope it was just a misunderstood gesture. Let's all Pray for them all

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Brick needs Help!

7:47 am on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

why would they go after the church it did not happen in the church! They will go after him!

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Belief or not?

8:23 am on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

This guy has always been creepy and definitely a froot loop short of a bowl

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Belief or not?

8:23 am on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

This guy was always creepy and a froot loop short of a bowl

Arlen

5:09 pm on Monday, July 16, 2012

You're right Cando21. the truth will come out

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Typical Obama Voter

5:32 pm on Monday, July 16, 2012

For once it wasn't another public school teacher.

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julesg

5:57 pm on Monday, July 16, 2012

Be careful who you allow to befriend you and your children.....even if they are a "man of God"....very sad if this story is true.

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ship of fools

1:41 am on Saturday, July 21, 2012

it sounds like a bunch of garbage - besides nobody really knows the whole story anyway - i dont believe in in lynchmobs hellbent on a witchhunt when they dont have a clue to what the whole story is. I. E. mostly the people that comment on the brick patch

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diana verderame kieffer

6:45 pm on Friday, August 3, 2012

dont assume you can make an ass out of u

Don

6:08 pm on Monday, July 16, 2012

Presumptive guilt is judgmental. But this is certainly a warning to anyone with power or authority to not leave yourself open to an allegation.

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brickmom3

6:45 pm on Monday, July 16, 2012

I dont get it .. .went to catholic school ( 4 of us in the family & 2 brothers ) spent my entire life going to catholic church, Iam not saying its not possible, but Never happened to any of us OR any of our classmates or friends...
I dont think it has anything to Do with Preist, Think it has to do with prevs,
The PPL that I DO know that had these things happen to them where People in their own families... SO sad... BUT NOT usally PPL You think, NOT usally the creepy guy hanging out at the park,,, 9x out 10 People our kids know & trust..

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Tarkus

7:28 pm on Monday, July 16, 2012

@brickmom, So, by your logic, if you or your family or any of your friends were not molested by a priest, you don't believe it happened? By the way, please learn to spell, it's "Priest" not "Preist", "Pervs" not "Prevs", and "Usually" not "Usally", also, learn to put together a coherent sentence with proper use of punctuation and capital letters.

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givitabreak

11:13 pm on Monday, July 16, 2012

@ tarkus... NO I think the point was that I Does happen ( If you had read what they wrote & understood it) " iam not saying its not possible" but the point was that in their experince & the people that she knew it didnt happen to,
& that its NOT usally some weirdo But usally family memebers... & as far as the spelling Really.. who cares this is not a grammer class this is a place to share views..

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holyhhh

8:27 am on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Tarkus, you capitalized "So". It really should not be capitalized since it is not at the beginning of a sentence. I don't really care about the article, but your comment just sent me over the edge. Who cares about a family being molested when there is improper grammatical usage going on!

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Belief or not?

6:23 am on Wednesday, July 18, 2012

And being Catholic, People know and trust their men of clergy sometimes more than family.... dont doubt what the news is saying, this man failed his lord, other families and himself.

Sonia Ivette Triano

7:11 pm on Monday, July 16, 2012

Reason why I trust no one with my child and underestimate nothing!!!!

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rightwing

7:16 pm on Monday, July 16, 2012

Pedophiles and sexual deviants exist all around us, not just in the Catholic Church. The Church has always condemned illicit sexual behavior, unlike most of our society that condones and celebrates it. Let us concentrate on exposing and punishing this harmful behavior. Keep your children close, and raise them well. Let justice take it's course and presume this man is innocent until proven guilty.

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Karen Ann Campbell

4:53 pm on Sunday, July 22, 2012

The church has spent millions trying to hush up and cover up abuse and allegations by families. Let's be honest and realistic. There are plenty of deviants living under the cloak of religion not just Catholic. The Catholic incidences just seem to get the most press.

Amber

7:45 pm on Monday, July 16, 2012

I've known father Chris since a child, hes been nothing but kind, curteous and respectful to me and my whole family who all are currently active in the church since 2000. It's funny how father Chris is immediately thrown in jail with bail. While Patrick Doyle got away Scott free after killing Anthony Briffa while driving drunk. This whole town and there corrupt ways are ridiculous.

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diana verderame kieffer

6:55 pm on Friday, August 3, 2012

Thanks----I agree we have been close to him also --with birth--death--marraige communion and confirmation--he has always been kind and loving and appropiate and we are a family OF GALS AND GIRLS and have known him for years--we support his european ways of embracing us---wake up brick!!!

ed crowley

7:54 pm on Monday, July 16, 2012

What did the mom do while her child was being molested? When did she call 911? Who did he attack first?

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Michael Hendrickson

8:02 pm on Monday, July 16, 2012

Father Chris is a good man and would never do such an awful thing..He is a man of the cloth and I'm sure the facts will prove him innocent..God bless you father Chris

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Angela Scott

5:58 pm on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

I've been going to this Church for almost 25 years. I christened my daughters in this Church. I know Father Chris. He would never ever do the things the woman is charging him with.
Because of his kindness and big heart, it unfortunately makes him a big taget.
I know in my heart that God won't let this happen to father Chris.
God bless you father Chris....don't loose faith.
I believe in you ~i~
Angela Scott

Joe555

8:07 pm on Monday, July 16, 2012

Fateher chris was a loving guy, these people could have easily made alligtions against a non sexual gesture.

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Tarkus

8:22 pm on Monday, July 16, 2012

You sir, are an idiot. Learn to spell.

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givitabreak

11:15 pm on Monday, July 16, 2012

I Dont know him & hope its not true... But Iam sure thats the same thing many Mothers thing about their own husbands..

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Randal Graves

1:12 am on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Seems like he was a little too loving, Hope they hang him!

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Alice Kiel

9:20 am on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

I agree...Father Chris has been a very positive force in this parish.....He is truly a kind man and one of the main reasons parishioners still come to this church which has been in sad shape for quite awhile.....Most people who have not already changed churches say they only stay because of Father Chris......Let's hear the whole story!!!!!

Margie Kane

8:22 pm on Monday, July 16, 2012

Father Chris is a wonderful priest who loves God and tries to help everyone.
God bless and may God help you thru this. You are in my prayers.

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Thomas McGoohan

8:40 pm on Monday, July 16, 2012

Father Chris is a gentle, kind, and passionale priest. At the present time he is innocent until proven guilty. Treat hime that way!

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4:49 pm on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

....maybe too much passion!

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Angela Scott

6:08 pm on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

I agree Thomas,
Even in the lowest and saddest times in our lifes, God will see us through it.
God knows the truth....that alone will set him free.

Denise S

8:47 pm on Monday, July 16, 2012

Father Chris is a wonderful priest! Not for one second do I believe this. The truth will come out whatever it is and I will continue to pray for him and the family that acuses. he is a very gentle helpful person.

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Denise S

8:48 pm on Monday, July 16, 2012

I want more details..whats the probable cause..if the police and Patch want to start an uproar in the community we deserve to know what the accuser said!!!!

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craig

6:56 am on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

They wouldn't arrest a priest without some pretty hard evidence.

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summer NJ mom

8:17 am on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

@ Craig that in not true, Just one mention of it & the police have to investagate
( as same with any mention of this with anyone) Its usally guilty until proven innosent... in most of these cases

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lifelonginbrick

8:25 am on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

What a weird comment. So the police can not arrest anyone unless they run it by you first? Unless you are on the jury you do not a any special right to know what the accuser said. The police are just doing their job they are not doing this just to start an "uproar" and the Patch is just reporting news. Let due process work.

JanT

8:52 pm on Monday, July 16, 2012

how are the police causing an uproar? did they go to her house and solicit the story? c'mon.... let's let him have his day in court and see what happens

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Denise S

11:07 pm on Monday, July 16, 2012

by stating they had probable cause,people onlyspeculate and it becomes rumour and miscontrued as fact. Trust me its all I have heard all day since this posted, I will continue to pray for both sides in this as whatever the truth is I hope it comes out.

Shore Mom

8:53 pm on Monday, July 16, 2012

Too many people are saying how they don't believe this could happen because they "know" this man. You can see someone every single day of your life, even LIVE with them, and still not "KNOW" what is truly going on in their minds. Antisocial people of any kind learn at an early age to keep their thoughts to themselves. Stop being so naive and wait until the facts come in before you stand up and claim to "know" anyone that you maybe see once a week for an hour or so!

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Brick28

8:54 pm on Monday, July 16, 2012

He turned himself in so my guess is he did it.

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lisa

6:13 pm on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

so by your logic, if he's innocent he should have run

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Angela Scott

6:14 pm on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

If he did turn himself in......It's because he didn't do it !!!!!

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Denise S

11:28 pm on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

where in thisd artivcle does it say he turned himself in Brick28???????or in any other paper?

kianka

9:03 pm on Monday, July 16, 2012

Tarkus,
You may want to check your own grammatical errors instead of wasting your time checking those of others. In your response to brickmom3, you're missing a few periods. Also, there is a comma missing after the "you" in your response to Joe55. You might get a little more respect for you comments if you stop acting like a 2nd grade English teacher.

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Christopher Naples

9:05 pm on Monday, July 16, 2012

http://www.amazon.com/Purple-Reign-Sexual-Diocese-Trenton/dp/1456500961 the link above is a book that was just published about the trenton dioces fact based. to the ones that are quick to supoort the accused priest all I have to say is Fr Mac(mcalinden) was as some said when He was accussed to be a kind gentle good priest and 5 years later we learn that he was a monster. Do not I repeat donot go to the diocese for assistance they have lied over and over there is an entire transcrip of a recording of a meeting with the victims cordinator one of wich new about accussed preiest and lied about it years later and also a communication with the vice vica nd bishop. I can say that what they say about helping victims in my personal wxperience is the complete opposite. Pray for the ones making the alligation that they have the stregnth to survive the monsters. bravo to the arrest This is close to home cause I was a member at vistation for years and know alot of the parishinors remember priest do rape children adults etc... chris naples

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Christopher Naples

9:07 pm on Monday, July 16, 2012

before someone complains about my spelling i will say it first my spelling sucks...

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Nina

9:33 pm on Monday, July 16, 2012

This is crazy!!! Father Chris has helped my family so much!!! He is such a great man and these people are probably just looking for money! This is hard to even believe. How could anyone do such a thing to someone who has devoted his life to helping others? Its sad..

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Rena

7:38 am on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Oh Mike, Did you need to open your mouth and show peolpe how dumd you are

Adrienne

9:55 pm on Monday, July 16, 2012

1of2 I'm extremely disgusted & saddened about what I just read. My name is Adrienne & I'm a 31 year old resident. I've been a single mother of a beautiful & extremely talented 13year old daughter for the majority of her life. She attends Ccd classes at Church of the Visitation. My father, mother, aunts, uncles, cousins & my daughter and I are parishioners at this church since my family moved to Toms River in 1995. In 2003, tragedy struck my family with death of my cousin. Her parents are very active in the church. I was told of a certain priest & how he helped my aunt & uncle through this time of turmoil. I heard a few stories of him going out of his way to help ease their pain. In 2004, tragedy struck again. My mom had respiratory failure& was on life support@ Brick Hosp. I stayed@her bedside as much as I could but when I wasn't their was a certain priest who ( on his own time) sat &prayed by her side. The nurses told me he was a saint. My mom passed away 5/28/04@53yrs old. If it werent for 4 his words of comfort I wouldnt have made it through. Every Sunday since , my daughter& I go2mass. He stops the procession & "high-fives" my daughter or we make it a point to find him to speak with or simply give him a hug. Just being in his presence makes you feel better. He has a light that surrounds him. When
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Angela Scott

6:24 pm on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Adrienne,
I agree with you about father Chris, their is something special about him.
He once told me about a dream he had not to long ago. Mother mary came to him in the dream.....If I remember it right, he'll be fine.
God will see him through it.

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diana verderame kieffer

7:03 pm on Friday, August 3, 2012

you are right he has always been there for our family no matter what day or time he appears he is an angel not the devil they are making him out to be

Adrienne

9:57 pm on Monday, July 16, 2012

(part2of2) When I was married in 2005 I requested that I was married by him. Since he never performed a wedding in America before & his English is hard to understand , he was assisted by another priest. He sang at my wedding reception.  I run into him from time to time at 7-11, where he gets his coffee and is social. The past 2years others have really flocked to Father Chris & look to greet him after church. He is super , super friendly. If u look sad he'll put his arm around shoulder as your walking & give you words of wisdom or pinch both of your cheeks and tell you to smile. Since,  my daughter was 2 he'd make it a point to make her smile telling her about India. When other parishioners are taking pictures with him , he'll pull others in & laugh and say , " We are all Gods children." Many don't know but he's worked with Mother Theresa & the poor for many years. I hope & pray to God that this "misunderstanding" is resolved.  I'm a very cautious person & can be rather standoffish due to a tragic life altering incident at age 12. Without hesitation I can say that  This man is not an abuser, molester, raper. The furthest thing from it. He's just friendly& genuinely cares about others in their time of need & it makes me sad that this is what happens to those who help others. What is this world coming to?

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Adrienne

9:59 pm on Monday, July 16, 2012

(part2of2) When I was married in 2005 I requested that I was married by him. Since he never performed a wedding in America before & his English is hard to understand , he was assisted by another priest. He sang at my wedding reception.  I run into him from time to time at 7-11, where he gets his coffee and is social. The past 2years others have really flocked to Father Chris & look to greet him after church. He is super , super friendly. If u look sad he'll put his arm around shoulder as your walking & give you words of wisdom or pinch both of your cheeks and tell you to smile. Since,  my daughter was 2 he'd make it a point to make her smile telling her about India. When other parishioners are taking pictures with him , he'll pull others in & laugh and say , " We are all Gods children." Many don't know but he's worked with Mother Theresa & the poor for many years. I hope & pray to God that this "misunderstanding" is resolved.  I'm a very cautious person & can be rather standoffish due to a tragic life altering incident at age 12. Without hesitation I can say that  This man is not an abuser, molester, raper. The furthest thing from it. He's just friendly& genuinely cares about others in their time of need & it makes me sad that this is what happens to those who help others. What is this world coming to?

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the cad

12:10 am on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

I agree Adrienne everything you said is true he is the furthest thing from a molester..I talk to him 3 and 4 times a week he spends all his time getting bagels n food for the poor ..this is disgusting what they're doing to this man , he is just a friendly and caring man... so sad

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diana verderame kieffer

7:06 pm on Friday, August 3, 2012

my family also requested Father Chris for all his joy and love

MILITANT ANTI-THEIST

10:18 pm on Monday, July 16, 2012

This record that the catholic church keeps playing is broken for sure.

So many of you are so sure he didn't do it. You are the same people that believe that jesus' body magically ascended to heaven. Would you have the same answer if YOUR child told you that father chris touched him or her inappropriately? Rationalize.

ANTI-THEIST means that I'm against religion and you can now see why for yourself...

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Cathi

5:11 pm on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Are you against public school too when the molester happens to be a teacher??

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oldsoldier

6:16 pm on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Hope you believe in something greater than humans. There is a theology involved in any religion. Yes the messengers may fail in their example, but that doesn't diminish the message. You should wait until all the facts are made public before you jump to what could be a wrong conclusion about this priest. If he is in fact guilty, justice will be meted out, and his soul will burn for it. If he is found not guilty, justice will still have prevailed, and those like you who prejudged this man would owe him an apology. Unfortunately, even if he is found to be not guilty, I'm sure you won't be writing that apology here. Just my opinion.

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Cathy A

9:44 am on Wednesday, July 18, 2012

Anti-theist
There is no reason to attack the beliefs of people who believe in God. We all have the right to believe what we want to, (that includes you), so why get on your soapbox and belittle others? It's totally uncalled for.

Denise S

11:04 pm on Monday, July 16, 2012

Brick28 where here does it say he turned himself in????

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12:10 am on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Don't know this priest or anyone involved, but remember how every one thought that Joe Paterno and Sandusky couldn't be involved in any sexual molestation at Penn State.....just saying.

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Brick85

1:02 am on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

@Christopher Naples. Well said. Thank You!

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Lisa Gallo

7:05 am on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

How can people that have never met Father Chris personally speak so judgemental. I do not know the victims, I however know Father Chris as a compassionate, loving, good hearted person. May we all just wait until he is proven guilty to judge. Instead of jumping to conclusions, wait for the facts then form an opinion. In my heart this is just too hard to believe.

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Rena

7:47 am on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Please everyone pray for the soul of the child for the women is now satan's sidekick. This man would never hurt anyone. Just remind me never to ask you for the name of a book for i like a good story not a fancy cover. (do not judge) And as for anyone who is against the catholic church I shall pray satan does not make you his puppet as well

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Donna Griffin

7:50 am on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

I'm always cautious when these high-profile allegations are made particularly against a member of a large, deep-pocketed institution. As a mother of adult children, there is no doubt in my mind that I would have been the one arrested if anyone ever inappropriately touched my minor child in my presence....particularly if he had done the same to me. I think that we have to wait and see what the evidence uncovers. Clearly, there are bad priests, teachers, business executives, family members, etc. However, if these charges prove false, this man's reputation is tarnished for life. Prayers for the truth might be in order.

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Max

7:50 am on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

I don't know Father Chris and in this country you are still innocent until proven guilty, so I'll let the courts determine his guilt. However, I am amused at how naive some people can be. Maybe he is a nice guy, John Wayne Gacy was a clown for children and people adored him, but he was still a mass murdering pedophile. Nobody truly knows what anyone else is capable of and just because he didn't molest or rape you doesn't mean he didn't do it to someone else.

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MILITANT ANTI-THEIST

8:46 am on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

@max... the followers of father chris believe he has super powers and he can do no wrong

i'm sure there will be more victims coming forward...

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Donna Griffin

5:50 pm on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Militant Anti-Theist - You're an angry panda with very little tolerance for people of faith. We'll keep you in our prayers :)

Patrick Sayjack

7:54 am on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

This man should burn in hell for what he did

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Angela Scott

6:34 pm on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Sounds like you would turn your back on God in a heart beat Patrick. God would never do that to you!
I feel sorry for you....

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Cathy A

9:40 am on Wednesday, July 18, 2012

IF he did it, I agree with you, Patrick. But I find it extremely hard to believe that he is guilty.

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diana verderame kieffer

7:13 pm on Friday, August 3, 2012

ya know Patrick--people that live in a glass house should not throw stones--what goes around comes around so I guess you will be ther alSO!!!

Brick needs Help!

7:57 am on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Ok lets think this one out he did it to the mom first and then the mom allowed him by the daughter? He is not a big man that the mother would not be able to stop! I wish we know who this woman was cause that would say it all!!

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RoseMarie Sansone

8:01 am on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

I refuse to believe the allegations against Father Chris. We are parishioners of Visitation, attend mass, and my daughter has been in CCD and the children's choir for quite some time. We also live within walking distance to the church and see Father Chris regularly. He is a wonderful, caring man. When we had a few garage sales, he purchased many of my kids' things to send back to an orphanage in India. He also bought a cup of lemonade from my daughter's lemonade stand and gave her $5. My teenage son saw the police taking Father Chris away in handcuffs and I am thankful that my young daughter was not home to witness it. Doesn't anyone think these allegations are strange, that the alleged victims are a mother AND her child???

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Melissa Thomson

8:14 am on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Ditto. He has always been my favorite priest, doing nothing but good. I really wish people would follow the rule of innocent until proven guilty. But no matter the outcome from this, he will be scarred forever.

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Angela Scott

6:38 pm on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

His kindness and big heart Rosemarie....made him a big target.
god is with him,

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Cathy A

9:39 am on Wednesday, July 18, 2012

I agree with you totally, RoseMarie. I feel the same about Father Chris.

1stcav

8:05 am on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Pray for ALL involved ! Sad , very sad , said state were in, in this US of A..

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Bella

9:42 am on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Pray?? Pray to what? The invisible man in the sky?
Like George Carlin said,
"Something is wrong here. War, disease, death, destruction, hunger, filth, poverty, torture, crime, corruption, and the Ice Capades. Something is definitely wrong. This is not good work. If this is the best God can do, I am not impressed. Results like these do not belong on the résumé of a Supreme Being. This is the kind of $**T you'd expect from an office temp with a bad attitude. And just between you and me, in any decently-run universe, this guy would've been out on his all-powerful @$$ a long time ago."

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MILITANT ANTI-THEIST

10:31 am on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

@bella.....
if god had a boss he would have been collecting unemployment long ago....

Forked River Mom

8:16 am on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

@ RoseMarie Sansone, just because someone SEEMS nice and purchases stuff for orphanages, doesn't necessarily mean that they're a saint. Sometimes these sicko's lead extremely perverted and sick lives behind closed doors. I'm not saying it's true, but just because he has done nice things in the past (all part of his job as a priest by the way) doesn't mean he's innocent. Sometimes you need to open your eyes to the bad things in this world. I pray for all involved and I hope this was just a misunderstanding or an action blown out of proportion.

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knarfie

8:48 am on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

I would not be surprised with all the bad priest stories, however, I think more must be heard before he is deemed guilty with so little information.

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RoseMarie Sansone

8:49 am on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Believe me, if this is true, I will be heartbroken. I am a 41 year old overly protective mom n am cautious of everyone. My daughter has never been left alone at choir or anyplace else. Many people are wolves in sheep's clothing. I'm just saying it is extremely hard to fathom these allegations against Father Chris.

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Mattie

9:26 am on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

In the article: " During that visit, Ford said, it is alleged that Velan had "inappropriate contact" with the adult mother as well as her minor child."

There are so many facts missing from this story, how could ANYONE make any judgements for - or against- this man?

What exactly is "inappropriate contact"?
Did he pat her on the fanny ? Did he grab a breast? Did he try to kiss her? Did he hug her a little "too long" or "too close"?
What were his intentions while this "inappropriate act" was supposedly taking place? Why was he invited to their home in the first place? Or did he arrive there UNINVITED? These facts matter.
Also the fact that this priest is Indian is also a factor in my mind. He is more susceptible to false allegations from biased people, and/or misunderstanding from ignorant ones.
And the "minor child".... is this child 8 or 10 yrs old? Or is she 16 or 17? Any age under 18 is considered a 'minor'. And when people see the word minor in a story like this - they (naturally) assume a very young, defenseless, innocent child. And it riles up the emotions and the imagination as well.
I don't know Father Chris, I don't go to his church (or ANY church)... but I DO know that people, for many reasons, can and do sometimes accuse people in all sorts of authority positions falsely or mistakenly. It is just as possible that Fr. Chris is innocent as it is possible he is guilty. There are simply not enough facts being revealed here to say....

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The Liberal Crusader

10:14 am on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Once again, Mattie, thank you for supplying some much needed common sense.

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Localreader

1:10 pm on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Good post, I agree with you. People are speculating, casting stones, defending and judging (both the priest and the accusers) based on a story containing no facts.

Like you, I don't know Father Chris, nor do I attend any church.

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Mzha

2:43 pm on Sunday, July 22, 2012

Mattie I believe everything you have stated. I do know Father Chris and like him very much. But what does bother me is all the details left out like you mentioned. The report even said "criminal inappropriate act". How criminal that if he was doing anything to the daughter where was the mother? Tied up? Something just does not add up.

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diana verderame kieffer

7:21 pm on Friday, August 3, 2012

u R RIGHT THANKS FOPR THE SUPPORT AND NOT BEING JUDGEMENTAL

Susan Cullen Neves

9:31 am on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

This is directed at Aqualung who felt it was necessary to proclaim not once but twice that "usually is it female public school teachers who are the abusers".....you are delusional. There have been 2 very highly publicized incidents that I am aware of involving female public school teachers having illicit relationships with male students in the past 10 years. You have come to a very warped conclusion as I am sure the overwhelming majority of abusers are MALE and are NOT public school teachers.

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Bella

9:38 am on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Another reason NOT to patronize this cult. The money you sheep give weekly will go to this pervs defense or civil suit payouts.
Suckers!

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diana verderame kieffer

7:26 pm on Friday, August 3, 2012

bOTH OF YOU SHOULD GROW UP AND GET YOUR HEAD OUT OF YOUR BUTT!!

M

9:46 am on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

I thank all of you who are saying the truth about Father Chris, because everyone needs to know what a saint he is and that he would never hurt anyone. All of you who are making absurd comments wait for the facts, don't jump just because something is written, and don't say things about someone you have never met. Unfortunatly those of you who always believe wht you read will never have the grace to see the good in people. I pray for you. Jesus had doubters and enemies. So do we all! I encourage all of you who stand by Father Chris to continue to do so and get everyone you know who believes that he didn't do this to speak out for him. He needs our voices to help him and to pray for him!

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diana verderame kieffer

7:28 pm on Friday, August 3, 2012

U R RIGHT ON WAKE UP VISITATION PARISH AND SUPPORT HIM WE DO

sandy cheeks

9:53 am on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

I agree with Mattie's statements, but we all have to remember one thing: back in the early 90's, they had someone else in that VERY SAME church who was found guilty of something similar. Turns out, this man was around kids all the time, and the church knew. People swore up and down that he couldn't possibly have done it, because he was SUCH A NICE GUY. He was found guilty, and is now registered as a sex offender. So, yes, this priest may be the nicest guy in the world, but it doesn't necessarily mean that he's innocent. Only TIME will tell.

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A. Nonie

5:51 pm on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

My cousin is one of those children molested by that "man" years ago. When my cousin told his mother and she reported the abuse, the entire community ostracized the family and effectively blocked my other cousins from making their communions and confirmations. They had to go to other towns. I do not know this priest nor have i ever stepped foot in that church (especially after what happened to my family), but instead of blindly believing the man you barely see outside of church could never do such a thing or to automatically decide he's guilty because of his vocation- lets just wait for more information and wish peace on all those involved

Terry D

10:18 am on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

He who is without Sin be the first to Cast the first stone.Remember innocent until proven guilty.

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m

10:54 am on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

M Not that I find it hard to believe, because anything is possible in this world, but I could see father Chris' actions being misconstrued. My family has been with the church for 25 years ;My patents have volunteered at the 8th grade retreat for the past 15 years and I have helped for the last five. This retreat sums up to one adult and one highschool student watching and talking to a group of 8-10 15 yearolds in places of the church such as the priests' kitchen, dinning and living room. To my knowledge father Chris was never a problem there. Also 8 years ago when my family lost my brother to a drunk driver at the age of 20. Father Chris came to his wakes and funeral even though other priests and deacons were doing the readings. He stood on line, which wrapped around the funeral home, in the pouring rain. Came in and blessed my dead brother kisses his forehead and kissed mine and my parents feet because that is a custom where he was from. He hugged all of us and gave some words of wisdom later in life when I would see father Chris he would tell me about his works in India with Mother Theresa before she passed away. Being that I consider myself atheist, I feel my judgement on him is unbiased only knowing few things about him. I thinkits easy to misread what could be considered a comforting gesture in his country.

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diana verderame kieffer

7:36 pm on Friday, August 3, 2012

HE IS EMOTIONAL AND WORTHY OF OUR TRUST FATHER CHRIS HAS BEEN THE SHINING LIGHT IN THE DARKNESS OF OUR LIFE AND CRISIS WITH THE DEATH OF MY DAUGHTER--HE HELD HER AS SHE TOOK HER LAST BREATH--THIS IS A SPECIAL MAN NOT A PERVERT

Michael Epinger

11:10 am on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

@Terry D...yes, absolutely. I do not know Fr Chris but it seems that a lot of what has been posted here is pure pure speculation.
At this time, when people hear something even slightly intrigueing about a R C Priest the public jumps all over the story drawing their own conclusions.
Regarding the ''probable cause' statement released by the prosecutor's office...lets remember, the prosecutors office has to make statements like this...this is part of their 'politics'.
Sadly...this man has two strikes against him already in our highly charged environment: 1. He is a Priest and 2. He is an immigrant. Deny all you want people, but these two things will count against him in the 'court if public opinion'.
IF Fr Chris is innocent, his life is already ruined. This sort of tarnish NEVER goes away.
If Fr Chris is guilty, between new practices imposed be The Docese and the criminal justice system, he will be dealt with.
In the meantime, while this makes for a 'juicy' local story, the man is innocent until proven orherwise and the charges are at this point only allegations.

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Mattie

1:31 pm on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Michael, all you said is (sadly) true. Our society is over-the-top with bias against immigrants and/or people of color being involved in any sort of 'sex related' allegations. It becomes all very "shoot first, ask questions later" in these situations...

EllenS08723

11:37 am on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

People who are saying how wonderful this man is need to remember that appearances can be deceiving. They usually don't arrest someone and detain them in jail without a preponderance of evidence. My guess is he's done this for awhile and the very diocese that is stating they are cooperating with an investigation and have suspended his ministry privileges. Why do you think they did that so readily? Why not defend him the way all of you who "knew him" are? My guess is they knew the type of man he was and let him continue to be exposed to families and children. Catholicism and the politics behind it are a joke.

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Mattie

11:47 am on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Sorry Ellen, Your guess is BS. Because in our hyper-diligent and hyper-vigilante sexually puritanical society, it does NOT take a 'preponderance of evidence' to get arrested for any sort of 'sex crime'. It merely takes an ACCUSATION.
Investigation and evidence gathering comes after that. For right or wrong, that's the reality.

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nothingsurprisesme

2:50 pm on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

WHY DO THEY KEEP RAISING HIS BAIL THEN?

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diana verderame kieffer

7:40 pm on Friday, August 3, 2012

I HOPE YOU ARE NEVER ON THE OPPOSITE SIDE OF THE COIN ELLEN--THE POLICE AND THE GOVERNMENT ARE NOT EASY TO DEAL WITH

maxie

12:11 pm on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Don't believe anything you hear or read and only half of what you see

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lisa edel

12:28 pm on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

I have known father Chris and there is no way these accusations are true I would bet my life on it. Its said but people are so desparate to make money during this economy they would do anything. Lisa Edel

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T.I.D.

1:22 pm on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Someone should go to the police department and get a copy of the report....the OPRA ACT....allows you to do that...

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TCG

2:01 pm on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

No need to worry about the priest. Guilty or innocent, the church will spend gobs of money to cover for him, defend him and if necessary, just move him to a different parish. And if it turns out he is guilty, the church will fight tooth and nail to avoid doing anything to help his victims.
For more, check out:
http://www.godhatesshrimp.com/

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barbara

8:55 am on Wednesday, July 18, 2012

so true TCG, it sickens me how the churches and Dioces cover up all the priests who are molesters. They even have a "Retreat" where they house them if they don't transfer them to another church. It sickens me, and yes, I am Catholic.

nothingsurprisesme

2:48 pm on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

GIVE IT A WEEK AND THERE WILL BE ANOTHER 5-10 KIDS COMING FWD. SAYING THEY WERE MOLESTED TOO...
MARK MY WORD

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barbara

8:58 am on Wednesday, July 18, 2012

alot of children who are molested by someone they trust are afraid to come forward. If this priest is guilty and has done this to other chldren, i hope this makes them come forward.

Only the truth

3:12 pm on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

its about time. This man is no saint. Don,t let him fool you. He is more like the devile.

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Donna Smith

3:18 pm on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

This is totally a set up, Father Chris is not that type of person. This man has been alone with me for counseling of my faith. Please don't let this be another witch hunt.

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Christopher Naples

3:33 pm on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Donna smith tell me what cases of alligations made against a clergyman are witch hunts then tell me what cases were not. Jemison count yourself lucky that you are not the one having to make these akligations. And if you were how would you feel about the comments like your own. From Terrence mcalinden was accused in 2007 the victim was left to believe he was the only one to find out the diocese had known of his behavior for 20 plus years. Now as. Of today the diocese has made out of court settlements and atleast 4 victims have come forward. When the facts come out I hope you will be the first person asking the alledged perpetual for accountability.

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forthekids

3:44 pm on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Wow, what a surprise, a Cathloic priest accused of molesting a young boy. No problem say ten hail mary's cut a check to the familes and transfer him to another state. Gotta love the Catholic church, met this guy once about five years ago, would never ever let him in my houes or be alone with my children seemed like a creep. If God created man why would he put people like this on this earth??? Don't do the crime if you can't do the time, It's evolution baby!!!

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barbara

9:01 am on Wednesday, July 18, 2012

don't know this priest and we dont know the whole story yet, but you are so right. The church and Dioces will do exactly as you say. It has been happening for many years, makes me sick.

newbeee

4:02 pm on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Wow! People, pleeease refrain from insulting God, the Catholic Church and those of faith! Your comments are completely irrelevant to this article and its subsequent blog. Additionally, some of you are incredibly ignorant, (point of reference for Bella, forthekids, TCG: free will!). Let's be adults and discuss the matter at hand, not your religious beliefs, Silly Kids!
Thanks for your anticipated consideration!

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Joan

4:13 pm on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Does this make sense ? Whom does he molest first? Sorry I don't buy this story!!!

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Lori Noel Lewkowitz

4:25 pm on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Don't forget that the donations you make when they pass the basket, usually twice during mass, go to their legal defense...

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newbeee

4:32 pm on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Thanks, Lori! Same goes for our property taxes and our political leaders, and we actually PICK those people - how foolish and incapable we all are!! Don't be so cynical ...

Anthony

4:28 pm on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

He is a man of the cloth...and that cloth was cut from the same fabric as Jerry Sandusky

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Colleen Blake

4:31 pm on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

I know Father Chris and I don't believe this to be true. Innocent till proven guilty. period the end.

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Anthony

4:32 pm on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

BTW, I'm writing down names. If he's found guilty, I expect all you supporters will apologize to the family for calling them liars.

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Sue Hoban Ostapowycz

6:00 pm on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Will you be apologizing if he is found innocent?

Vin

4:36 pm on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

I really find this hard to believe. He attacked a mother and child at the same time?

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.

4:52 pm on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Maybe he grabbed them both at the same time. You never know.

redheadfromjc

5:38 pm on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

I agree with many of the posters that we should wait for all the facts to come out before we rush to judge..I am a Catholic who is very involved in our Parish (not Visitation) I am not proud of the way the Catholic Church responded to the horrible incidents of sexual abuse in the past and can only pray that if indeed the allegations are true about Fr. Chris that he will be removed as a priest, and there will be healing for the Mom and child who have suffered. I also hope that if he is cleared all of you Catholic bashers out there will admit that not all priests are molesters and some times the accusers are the ones taking advantage...
It truly saddens me that George Carlin is quoted for his outlook on religion....what a role model... God created man and gave him free will, so if you have an issue with the values and actions of certain men, blame them for what they do, not God!!
I find it rather sad that there is an article on the Patch about a stabbing in a residential neighborhood in Brick and no one seems to be outraged about the decline of our once "safest city" in the country...I am certainly getting more worried about my family's safety as I sit in my own home than I am as I attend Mass or participate at a Church function!

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lisa

6:24 pm on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

something is not right about this. if he's in my home and either touches me or my daughter he's out. why wait for the second touch.

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joe

6:47 pm on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

I have known Fr. Chris for years. He is one of the most truly devoted followers if Christ I have ever met. His commitment to his parish community goes far beyond what is expected, yes even for a Priest that devotes their lives to God and His flock. It seems incredulous that the allegations can be true, but hopefully the evidence will come out and he will be exonerated.
If by some chance there is some validity to the charges (I doubt it), then it will be a sad day for the Catholic Church and even sadder for his parishioners who love and respect him.
To the vermin that crawl out of the woodwork and vilify FR Chris without any facts; just the allegations of one person in the privacy of their home, you are despicable.

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Angela Scott

6:56 pm on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Hi Joe,
Those who do know father Chris, knows he couldn't do this. I'm going to try and see him tomorrow. I think he needs to know we're all there for him at his time of need, he was there for ours...

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diana verderame kieffer

7:47 pm on Friday, August 3, 2012

WHERE IS HE I WANT TO SEE HIM ALSO

fed up with Brick

8:08 pm on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

All you people make me sick!!!!!

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Anthony

8:30 pm on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

@Sue Hoban Longlastname Absolutely, I'll personally write him a letter of apology.

I find it interesting that everybody defending this man are telling everyone that we don't know the facts and we shouldn't judge him before we do. Then, in the next sentence, they accuse the family of lying and being money chasers. It's amazing, the hypocricy that runs rampant in the mind of the religious. I was baptized in that church, made my first communion there, and haven't been back since. It wasn't the church that turned me away, it was the people in it. The rudest, nastiest, most judgmental people I've ever met in my entire life.

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Theresa

12:40 am on Wednesday, July 18, 2012

That is exactly why my family left that Parish too about six years ago.

Colleen Blake

8:54 pm on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Not everybody(including myself) made accusations that the family is trying to get money out of it. Why? Becaise I would not judge anybody including father Chris until more facts come to the table.

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Alberta Cavallo

9:13 pm on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Hi Angela, I called the jail today from what I understand he has to put you on his visitation record. If he doesn't you can't see him. I wanted to go and see him also.
I know him since he came here in 2001. This is not true, this man would never harm anybody!!! we don't even know if he has a lawyer eveybody should pitch in for his bail and make a donation. He surely does not deserve this. The woman who LIED and made these accusations should " ROT IN HELL."

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Anthony

9:37 pm on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Trust me Alberta, he doesn't need donations for a lawyer. "The woman who LIED and made these accusations should " ROT IN HELL." How very Christ-like of you. Tell me, what passage in the bible is that?

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Rebecca

9:55 pm on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Hey lynch mob, what do ya say we wait for some actual facts to come out prior to stringing him up, just saying. These articles really don't give any details. I am not a church goer and I have never met father chris. All you armchair detectives should at least wait until evidence is released. I mean all we really know is what the charges are.

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Rebecca

9:56 pm on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Anthony my really comment was directed at Alberto

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Cori Welch-Cusano

10:04 pm on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

I have known Father Chris for going on 11 years, he is a very close friend to my entire family! He was my grandmothers very best friend. He helped me through the most terrifying times of my life. He is an amazing Man!!! As close to perfection as they come! He is very passionate and more gentle than a baby bunny. The most inappropriate thing I have ever witnessed him do was pass gas in church and chuckled instead of saying excuse me. INNOCENT UNTIL PROVEN ORHERWISE ... NOT INNOCENT UNTIL ATTENTION SEEKERS ACCUSE HIM!!!

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Rebecca

10:09 pm on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

That goes both ways people shouldn't say he's guilty without facts just the same as saying the accusers are liars without any facts! Remember the Mcmartin case one crazy lady started the whole thing, but some of the other children's parents thought it really happened. Turns out nothing had happened. But those children's parents weren't looking for attention, they were just duped by shoddy police work, and over zealous prosecutor , and a quack doctor. Not saying that is the case here but for the love of god people at least wait for some facts.

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forthekids

10:21 pm on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

This is for all the "non believers", the Catholic Church as well as many other supposed houses of god are full of sexual predators. They prey on the people who are weak of body and mind. Science would not be able to create a predator like this, he has been made in the house of god, however loosely you may want to interpret that. In the laws of human selection many genes and dna are phased out, they would never tolerate a person who harms and destroys the youth which fosters our future. Its disturbing to see so many people BELIEVE?? WHY?? Ask yourself!!!You may be surprised with the answer

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Rebecca

10:33 pm on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Are you a scientologist? Somehow I think you are about to try to sell me dianetics

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oldsoldier

10:52 pm on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

You are correct, science could not create those predators, only seek to study them. Science has not evolved to the point of identifying every undesirable gene. Being a believer of whatever religion one may be, gives a personal reference point of good and evil. Plus, we are given free will to make our choices good and bad. That is why we have bad people in the world, and good people to identify and deal with them. You don't have to beleive in the Catholic Church, or Christianity for that matter. But if you don't believe in a supreme being, then what are you left with? Science? Science will always study, and never find the true answer. The answer won't slap you in the face, or drop in your lap. Therefore, you must have faith, and beleive.

oldsoldier

10:31 pm on Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Notwithstanding my post to Anti-Atheist earlier, I would like to at least re-emphasize the need to not pass judgement. Our justice system will do its job. That said, I hope those of you that feel the need to trash this priest would feel as equally compelled to sing his praises if he is aquitted of these charges. If not, then you too should seek some higher moral authority to reconcile yourselves to. I'm not of the opinion one way or the other as to whether this man did what he is accused of. I have (like many of you) read about the scum that were accused, charged and found guilty of such actions, a la Penn State. Thankfully, that scum will never do that to anyone again. On the other hand, I have also read where people were accused, charged and finally have it either come out in court that the charges were false, or some monetary settlement was reached. Sure, some of these people were vindicated in our justice system. Either way, the damage to their reputations was done. In my opinion, this case hits closer to home for many of us, so we should give our justice system time to do its job. Also, for Anthony, try not to use the bible as a point of reference to attack a Christian's passionate defense of a fellow Christian. It's cheap, fake and does not lend to any support of your position. I don't think anyone here pretends to be "Christ-like", we only try to follow his example. I hope you have a good example to follow in your life.

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Sean Conneamhe

6:24 am on Wednesday, July 18, 2012

"Stop judging, or you will be judged."

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Art Sholty

9:49 am on Wednesday, July 18, 2012

@Sean, another one, "A mans wisdom gives him patience; it is to his glory to overlook an offense." Proverbs 19:11.......................About more that half of these comments have found this man guilty without the benefit of a trial. Prisoners are being let out of prison because they were found innocent after years of incarceration. Give the Priest his day in court and ask God for enlightenment.

Anthony

8:12 am on Wednesday, July 18, 2012

"Also, for Anthony, try not to use the bible as a point of reference to attack a Christian's passionate defense of a fellow Christian. It's cheap, fake and does not lend to any support of your position. I don't think anyone here pretends to be "Christ-like", we only try to follow his example. I hope you have a good example to follow in your life."

Right, no Christians EVER use the Bible to attack anyone. Leviticus, anyone?

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newbeee

9:08 am on Wednesday, July 18, 2012

Rebecca:
"All I see is a bunch of people who think he did it cause he is a priest and a bunch of people who dont think he did it cause he's a priest."
Love it ~ I am laughing my butt off!!

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Art Sholty

9:54 am on Wednesday, July 18, 2012

Just like a laughing HYENA....................Shame on you.

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newbeee

10:12 am on Wednesday, July 18, 2012

Shame on me for what, Art?! Enjoying the fact that someone pointed out the obvious irony of the blog-writers? Laughing at the fact that so many people are mindlessly typing away, promising the sacrifice of their first-born children over whether or not Father Chris is guilty of commiting this 'offense'?!
PS: I'm laughing at you too, Arty!

1stcav

9:23 am on Wednesday, July 18, 2012

..and you with NO sin, cast the first stone !!!!

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Art Sholty

2:31 pm on Wednesday, July 18, 2012

The pitter patter of little feet means the FIRST CAV is in full retreat

Cathy A

9:37 am on Wednesday, July 18, 2012

I have known Fr Chris for years. He has been an inspiration to me, my family and all who know him. I cannot imagine him doing anything to hurt anyone; especially what he is accused of. Fr Chris is the kindest, most caring, holiest man (and priest) I have ever known. It is unimaginable to even think that he is guilty. I know that some priests (and other people in different walks of life) have done horrible things, but I know in my heart that Fr Chris is innocent. May God bless him and help him get through this ordeal.

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brickmom

11:47 am on Wednesday, July 18, 2012

I just can't believe I spent all this time reading these comments. I do not know Fr Chris but from what I am reading some say he is creepy and others say he is a kind, caring holy man. He is human and capable of doing anything just like any other sicko. He may just be hiding behind a mask. He may also be that kind caring holy man that some say. Hopefully the system will get it right and let go an innocent man or prove a molester guilty.

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Evelyn Bonilla

3:31 pm on Wednesday, July 18, 2012

I hope this isn't true...I know Father Chris he was very loving and caring to my parents. He visited my mother during her time in hospice. He also prayed at her funeral and burial. I saw him as kind, friendly and holy individual.....my prayers go out to all involved. Who ever knows...

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Angela Scott

7:40 pm on Wednesday, July 18, 2012

I can't believe what you people are posted!
It doesn't matter if you know father Chris or not! or if you go to church or not!
whether you believe in god or not!
What really matters is......
We wait for the truth to come out! and it will in time. This is my church....and I for one will not turn my back on it or father Chris. Have you people giving any thought to the out come? If he didn't do this....how will he over come all of this?
Who are you people to coast that stone? I'll be going to church this Sunday and when I walk in.....and see my god up on that cross, I know I'm a better person because of him. And for those of you who don't believe in god.....I feel nothing but sadness for you all. And for those of you that are already nailing father Chris to the cross....you're no better then the people who did it to Jesus! all those years ago.

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oldsoldier

7:56 pm on Wednesday, July 18, 2012

Well, there is no point in driving this into the ground. I am done with this thread. I just hope those of you that feed off this terrible incident (no matter how it turns out), can find it in your hearts to wish the best for whoever the victim(s) turn out to be.

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Mattie

2:51 pm on Friday, July 20, 2012

For everyone to think about:

" There are approximately 46,000 Catholic priests in the United States and 300 cases filed to date, which is under .7% of the priesthood."
That's * Point* seven percent .... a very much a small fraction of the total number of priests. And those are cases filed, not won or lost, but total accusations leading to arrests and one conclusion or another. Point 7% isn't even worthy of a stereotype, never mind out-and-out priest bashing- so, make a note SNAP lady.

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newbeee

3:04 pm on Friday, July 20, 2012

Thank you for the stat's, Mattie; as a Catholic, at times, I am put in a position in which I have to defend our church and it's difficult to do when dealing with small-minded people who irrationally claim, "all priests are molesters ... they rape little boys ... " While you and I both know those sad, shiftless saps are constantly grasping for excuses to alleviate themselves of a simple 45-minutes obligation one day a week and the 'bother' of having to share conversation with their children that will contribute to their faith and overall wellbeing! I appreciate having some statistical information for the next discussion in which I have to defend the priesthood/Catholic Church = )

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Mattie

9:19 pm on Friday, July 20, 2012

Well truth be told (again) newbeee, I'm not catholic and haven't been for more than 40 years. BUT nearly my entire family is catholic for many generations. My 83 yr old mother is still active in her church and sings in the choir. I had relatives who were devout enough to attend church not every week, but every single day - until they became very elderly. I grew up seeing priests (and nuns) from two different parishes invited to family members' homes for all sorts of holidays, births, deaths and celebrations. My eldest brother was once in the seminary for a year. So, I'm no stranger to the Catholic church or to priests or nuns.
All that aside; I feel a compulsion to defend this priest to some point, giving him the benefit of the doubt just like I would if he wasn't a priest, but an immigrant instead, or a black man, or a Muslim, or ANYONE who could easily be stereotyped as a "criminal" or "evil" simply because of who they are, what they look like, or where they come from. It's. just. not. right.
If it turns out he's guilty - he's guilty. End of story. That doesn't make ALL (accused) priests guilty. If it turns out he's innocent - he's innocent. That doesn't make ALL (accused) priests innocent, either.

Mzha

10:59 am on Sunday, July 22, 2012

I say he's innocent until proven guilty. I know Father Chris well and do not believe he would do that. It's one word against another, who knows what this woman is like, or if she's a liar or a drug addict. Hope this gets cleared up soon.

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barbara

2:47 pm on Sunday, July 22, 2012

why u condemming the mom as being a liar or drug addict? no one knows all the facts yet and u call yourself a christian?

Mzha

3:37 pm on Sunday, July 22, 2012

Barbara: I said, "who knows what this woman is like, or if she's a liar or a drug addict".
No one knows anything for certain. There are some on this blog who are calling Father Chris a "pervert". What do they know either. It could be possible that she is a liar or addict, I didn't accuse her, I said we don't know either way.Why, do you think it's possible that Father Chris is a "pervert" and that it's impossible for the mother to be a liar?

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barbara

6:00 pm on Sunday, July 22, 2012

i dont think he is a pervert at all nor do i think she is a liar or addict. i also believe innocent until proven guilty. the truth will come out. just the way you worded it. someone is at fault and the truth will come out.

Mzha

3:39 pm on Sunday, July 22, 2012

P.S. Barbara: Also, I didn't call myself a christian. Why do you assume too?

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barbara

6:05 pm on Sunday, July 22, 2012

P.S. just because you said you knew him well, yes, i assumed. sorry for that. I am a christian and i don't want to blame anyone at this point. Yes, you are right, one word against another. He is being bashed alot on here and he also has alot of support, but i feel that it should not be assumed that she might be a drug addict or liar. i apologize if i offended you.

Karen Ann Campbell

4:56 pm on Sunday, July 22, 2012

Not everyone who is accused is guilty. My own pastor was accused and later found to be innocent http://www.msgrwilliammccarthy.com/. I knew him personally and never thought he did it. But in this day and age I would not put anything past anyone.

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Mzha

6:20 pm on Sunday, July 22, 2012

Barbara: Apology accepted. I guess I got annoyed because I felt my words were taken out ot content. I didn't intend to sound like It was an accusation. I am a catholic but at that point I didn't want anything I said or didn't say to be assumed. Can we call it a truce.

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barbara

6:38 pm on Sunday, July 22, 2012

good, thank you. yes, we can call it a truce. i try to refrain on comments on this page, but sometimes can't help myslef. lol have a good night.....

JOHNNY Done it

6:25 pm on Friday, August 3, 2012

In the past these people making accusations against these other priests were not found to be compulsive liars , drug addicts or other they seemed to be church going people that were violated or taken advantage of...Does not make a good recruiting add for the church..

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Thomson

1:17 pm on Monday, September 17, 2012

-Mattie- stated the only logical view/statement on this so many variables and so little facts. Wait before you judge. If he's guilty hang him if not fine the family for wasting money on resources for false allegations

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Mattie

4:32 pm on Monday, September 17, 2012

Has anyone heard anything further on this case? It's been 2 months - to the day- since he was arrested...... any updates??

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M22

8:33 pm on Monday, September 17, 2012

I heard he's been out of jail for a while and moved to another church.

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barbara

10:15 am on Tuesday, September 18, 2012

i am another barbara, not the one comenting. but yea, i am christian, and the dioces has a way of hiding this shit. makes me sick........

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